There is nothing wrong with missing your boyfriend after a breakup. After all he has been a large part of your life. You wonder where he is and what he is doing. Then you think of him being with another woman and it makes you desperate. You want to talk to him, but everything you read about getting your ex back tells you not to contact him.
First of all you should look at the reason you are missing your ex boyfriend so much. It is because he is not having any contact with you. Your ex can’t miss you as long as you are always there telling him how much you love him. This might make you ask, how are we to get back together if there is no contact? The answer is that you have to let him have time to realize what he has lost and be the one to contact you.
In other words, you must act like you accept the breakup and show him how well you can get along without him. Of course you will be afraid to leave him alone because he might find another girlfriend. Male psychology will tell you that a man will want what they think they can’t have. as long as you make yourself available to him, your ex will reject you, but if he thinks you are dumping him you become desirable again.
The more you show your ex boyfriend how well you can get along without him, the more he will wonder how you could stop loving him so fast. This will require you to make drastic changes in your life. Find new interests and spend more time with family and friends. Always seem busy and put on a happy face. None of this will be easy, but if you want to get back he man you love it will be worth it.
It would also be a good idea to visit a salon and get a makeover. New hair style and lose some weight. Then go shopping for some really hot clothes. Next you need to make sure your ex sees how great you look and then disappear. Take a trip somewhere or visit friends, anything to keep him from knowing where you are and what you are doing.
Your ex boyfriend will wonder if you have run off with some other guy and if he is still in love with you, he will realize how important you are to his life. As soon as you are back from your trip, your phone will be ringing and the man who was rejecting you will be telling you how much he misses you.
